The white on the ceiling is stark and cutting and makes the back of my eyes hurt as I lay here on the couch. This is day 15 of chronic channel surfing in avoidance
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Seen and Not Heard: The Silent Pain of Emotional Neglect
Apr 11, 2025
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She sat quietly at the kitchen table, her small fingers tracing the wood grain, eyes fixed on the patterns as if they held the answers she sought. Moments earlier, her innocent curiosity had been met ...
The Enduring Scars of a Survivalist Generation
Apr 04, 2025
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A few more steps and I would be home. With blurred vision and blood gushing from my face,  my friend had left me to walk home from the hill moments after we rolled to the bottom. She would limp her ...
The Bricklayer’s Dilemma: Walls vs. Boundaries in Healing
Mar 21, 2025
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There’s an old saying: "Good fences make good neighbors." But I think whoever said that never had to rebuild themselves from the rubble of trauma. Because when you’ve been hurt, a fence doesn’t feel l...
Lessons Learned From My Canine Teachers
Mar 07, 2025
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The chaos erupted in an instant—one moment, there was tense stillness, and the next, a blur of teeth, snarls, and frenzied movement shattered the fragile peace we had known. The air was thick with the...
Cultivating Healthy Connections as an Empath
Feb 28, 2025
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My name is Anastasia and I am an Empath. When in close proximity to people I absorb their energy and carry it. When they are in a good place the energy is life giving, however, when the person we ar...
Uncovering the Great Unknown
Feb 21, 2025
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"Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen."Â Â
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Loving Your Inner Child: The First Step to True Healing
Feb 14, 2025
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Imagine you're on a plane, and the flight attendant reminds you: "Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others." It’s a simple instruction, yet so many of us ignore it in our own lives. We push t...
The Thing About Struggle
Feb 07, 2025
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"You will never forget a person who came to you with a torch in the dark."Â M. Rose
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The thing about Struggle is that everybody has it, everyone can see it and most people would rather run away fro...
Between Stimulus and Response: Mastering Emotional Regulation
Dec 13, 2024
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Victor Frankl once said, “Between stimulus and response, there is space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” It’s a beautiful truth, bu...