The white on the ceiling is stark and cutting and makes the back of my eyes hurt as I lay here on the couch. This is day 15 of chronic channel surfing in avoidance of things...
The Only Way Out is Through
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Between Stimulus and Response: Mastering Emotional Regulation
Dec 13, 2024
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Victor Frankl once said, “Between stimulus and response, there is space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” It’s...
The Art of Becoming
Dec 06, 2024
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When the brush hits the paper the bristles lead the way. The colors are picked randomly as they come to me. Today I sit in my cold studio and open the palette of options. Watching...
Slapping at the Surface
Nov 29, 2024
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The edge of the pool is cold and harsh and we stand in a line watching one of our instructors thrash around in the water as if he was drowning. I am 11 years old and today I am on the final...
When the Drums Cry
Nov 22, 2024
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Here I sit in the middle of 1000 people who had consumed the conference learnings for the last three days. I realize that I am in the middle of the room and escape will be...
When the Power Goes Out
Oct 26, 2024
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Its officially winter this morning and as I sit watching the sun rise a text dings from my neighbor about the power outage. We are on solar power so we never know about power...
The Battles Within
Oct 19, 2024
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"You are too smart to be the only thing standing in your way."
Welcome to the War Room. Its a place where the maps showing soldiers in battle are laid out. In the left...
The Art of Survivor and the Reality of Courage
Oct 15, 2024
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"When The Going gets tough, the tough get going."
This phrase came about as a motivational technique to entice athletes to overcome the hardship of competition. It is meant to...
The Vow & Other Tales of Healing and Hope
Sep 10, 2024
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"Love yourself first because that is who you will be spending the rest of your life with."
I am sitting on my bed with cloths all around me. We are getting ready to head out to...
Living Life By the Drop
Sep 10, 2024
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"No wasted time, we're alive today
Churning up the past, there's no easier way
Time's been between us, a means to an end
God it's good to be here walking together my friend"
Stevie Ray Vaughan
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Keep Calm and Swim On: Resilience Techniques for the Win
Sep 10, 2024
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"I visualize to the point that I know exactly what I want to do: dive, glide, stroke, flip, reach the wall, hit the split time to the hundredth, than swim back and forth as many times as I need to...
Two Steps Forward and One Step Back: A Dance of Growth
Sep 10, 2024
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"I am not okay
I'm barely gettin' by
I'm losing track of days
And losin' sleep at night"
Jellyroll
If there ever was a theme song that describes the life of a trauma survivor, this is it. I...