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When the Drums Cry changing behaviors courage indigenous drumming circle northern cree trauma your healing journey Nov 22, 2024

Here I sit in the middle of 1000 people who had consumed the conference learnings for the last three days.  I realize that I am in the middle of the room and escape will be difficult. Sitting in cerem...

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When the Power Goes Out Oct 26, 2024

Its officially winter this morning and as I sit watching the sun rise a text dings from my neighbor about the power outage.  We are on solar power so we never know about power outages.  I was grateful...

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The Battles Within Oct 19, 2024

"You are too smart to be the only thing standing in your way."

 

Welcome to the War Room.  Its a place where the maps showing soldiers in battle are laid out.   In the left corner of this room is a ...

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The Art of Survivor and the Reality of Courage changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers Oct 15, 2024

"When The Going gets tough, the tough get going."

This phrase came about as a motivational technique to entice athletes to overcome the hardship of competition.  It is meant to encourage those athlet...

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The Vow & Other Tales of Healing and Hope courage growing forward resilience self acceptance self love the dance of growth Sep 10, 2024

"Love yourself first because that is who you will be spending the rest of your life with."

 

 I am sitting on my bed with cloths all around me. We are getting ready to head out to Westlock, Alberta ...

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Living Life By the Drop changing behaviors courage creativity for healing growing forward healing hearing triggers the dance of growth understanding resilience Sep 10, 2024

"No wasted time, we're alive today

Churning up the past, there's no easier way

Time's been between us, a means to an end

God it's good to be here walking together my friend"

Stevie Ray Vaughan


To...

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Keep Calm and Swim On: Resilience Techniques for the Win changing behaviors courage growing forward healing resilience understanding resilience your healing journey Sep 10, 2024

"I visualize to the point that I know exactly what I want to do: dive, glide, stroke, flip, reach the wall, hit the split time to the hundredth, than swim back and forth as many times as I need to fin...

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Two Steps Forward and One Step Back: A Dance of Growth changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers the dance of growth trauma Sep 10, 2024

"I am not okay

I'm barely gettin' by

I'm losing track of days

And losin' sleep at night"

Jellyroll

 

If there ever was a theme song that describes the life of a trauma survivor, this is it. I ha...

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Flying Monkeys and My Journey Through a Legacy of Narcissistic abuse. changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers scapegoat understanding resilience your healing journey Sep 10, 2024

We have entered rainy season at the lake. Today is day six of rain and swarms of fish flies creating a loud buzz in the dark skies. It feels like a scene from a horror movie when walking out to the ga...

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When Yoda Speaks: Overcoming Barriers to Healing changing behaviors courage growing forward healing trauma understanding resilience Sep 10, 2024

"Do or do not, there is no try."

Yoda

 

After much internal conflict I took a week off and dug myself a few garden trenches. I placed seed, fertilized lawns and sat outside just listening to the bi...

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The Act of Growing Resilience changing behaviors growing forward healing resilience survivor understanding resilience Sep 10, 2024

"Our ability to grow resilient in the face of adversity

spreads to others and helps them grow resilient as well"

 

I am in my garden today getting ready for the new season of tending, weeding and h...

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WWJD Posters and other Myths in our Workplaces courage growing forward limiting beliefs reconciliation trauma trauma-informed workplaces Sep 10, 2024

"Trauma is prevalent in our world and its effects can ripple out, shaping our interactions and relationships at home and at work"

 

 We interrupt this peaceful slumber with an eye opening blast from...

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