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Seen and Not Heard: The Silent Pain of Emotional Neglect connection emotional neglect generation x growing forward worthy Apr 11, 2025

She sat quietly at the kitchen table, her small fingers tracing the wood grain, eyes fixed on the patterns as if they held the answers she sought. Moments earlier, her innocent curiosity had been met ...

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The Enduring Scars of a Survivalist Generation changing behaviors generation x growing forward understanding resilience Apr 04, 2025

A few more steps and I would be home.  With blurred vision and blood gushing from my face,  my friend had left me to walk home from the hill moments after we rolled to the bottom.  She would limp her ...

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Bridges, Not Ruins: Healing Relationships After Trauma boundaries connection growing forward healing trauma Mar 28, 2025

"The wound is the place where the light enters you." – Rumi

There was a time when I believed that some relationships were beyond repair. Trauma had left its fingerprints on everything—how I s

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Lessons Learned From My Canine Teachers changing behaviors courage emotional regulation growing forward healing trauma Mar 07, 2025

The chaos erupted in an instant—one moment, there was tense stillness, and the next, a blur of teeth, snarls, and frenzied movement shattered the fragile peace we had known. The air was thick with the...

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Loving Your Inner Child: The First Step to True Healing changing behaviors courage growing forward healing trauma inner child Feb 14, 2025

Imagine you're on a plane, and the flight attendant reminds you: "Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others." It’s a simple instruction, yet so many of us ignore it in our own lives. We push t...

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The Art of Becoming changing behaviors courage creativity for healing growing forward hearing triggers understanding resilience Dec 06, 2024

When the brush hits the paper the bristles lead the way.  The colors are picked randomly as they come to me.  Today I sit in my cold studio and open the palette of options.  Watching my neighbor sweep...

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Slapping at the Surface growing forward resilience self acceptance trauma your healing journey Nov 29, 2024

The edge of the pool is cold and harsh and we stand in a line watching one of our instructors thrash around in the water as if he was drowning.  I am 11 years old and today I am on the final leg of th...

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The Art of Survivor and the Reality of Courage changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers Oct 15, 2024

"When The Going gets tough, the tough get going."

This phrase came about as a motivational technique to entice athletes to overcome the hardship of competition.  It is meant to encourage those athlet...

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The Vow & Other Tales of Healing and Hope courage growing forward resilience self acceptance self love the dance of growth Sep 10, 2024

"Love yourself first because that is who you will be spending the rest of your life with."

 

 I am sitting on my bed with cloths all around me. We are getting ready to head out to Westlock, Alberta ...

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Living Life By the Drop changing behaviors courage creativity for healing growing forward healing hearing triggers the dance of growth understanding resilience Sep 10, 2024

"No wasted time, we're alive today

Churning up the past, there's no easier way

Time's been between us, a means to an end

God it's good to be here walking together my friend"

Stevie Ray Vaughan


To...

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Keep Calm and Swim On: Resilience Techniques for the Win changing behaviors courage growing forward healing resilience understanding resilience your healing journey Sep 10, 2024

"I visualize to the point that I know exactly what I want to do: dive, glide, stroke, flip, reach the wall, hit the split time to the hundredth, than swim back and forth as many times as I need to fin...

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Two Steps Forward and One Step Back: A Dance of Growth changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers the dance of growth trauma Sep 10, 2024

"I am not okay

I'm barely gettin' by

I'm losing track of days

And losin' sleep at night"

Jellyroll

 

If there ever was a theme song that describes the life of a trauma survivor, this is it. I ha...

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